Finally found out why Heather was so irritated with me Sunday. She'd said she wasn't up to being social, which I took to mean that she wanted to be left alone. No. It is correctly decoded to mean "do not allow anyone into the house". Foolish me. I think we're okay now, i.e. her ire has abated. I can't be too harsh on her because she's sick, and that can make one grumpy as I Well Know. She puts up with my grumps, so I feel a certain obligation (in addition to my general desire) to humor her. Plus I'm madly in love with her.